Thu 22 Jun 2006
Paganism and Values
Posted by Fiacharrey under Pagan Community, Paganism, Philosophy
Antistoicus recently responded to an article I wrote about the blog he founded and my sorrow at seeing it seem to die out. He and I share a basic philosophy that seems to be sadly neglected in modern paganism: that of the existence of a universal morality, or sense of “values.” Even people who read and enjoy his writing largely don’t seem to understand what lies at its core:
… [L]ook at the guestbook for the Almond Jar… Count the number of people who post things like “wonderful site, greatly agree”, but under “morality, subjective or objective” answer “subjective”. Most of the site consists of an attempt to construct an objective theory of morality, in which most of the theology is partially rooted. More often than not, the fan club didn’t even read what they were praising.
Values were never a side issue as far as I was concerned, but among those I find myself meeting through Paganism, values seldom seem to be of interest. There are exceptions to this, of course, but relatively few, even among the Conservatives, who one might think would respond positively to the concept of “traditional Western values”.
I haven’t written much about ethics and morality lately, but some may remember one of my first major articles , in which I said something very similar. Earlier drafts of the article were actually much more strongly worded on this issue, but I didn’t want to alienate what I know to be the vast majority of the pagan community, so I toned it down a bit. Now I feel like turning it back up a notch.
To me, morality cannot be separated from spirituality. Morality, or more precisely, the philosophy of ethics, concerns itself with what I has long been convinced is the ultimate question about life: what is the best way to go about the business of living? How do we live our lives as best as possible? Can there be anything more important than that?
The biggest impediment to meaningful discussion on ethics is the wide popularity of moral relativism. If it is true that “what may be good for you, might not be good for someone else” or “every path is valid,” the discussion ends there. There is nothing meaningful to talk about if the entirety of ethics is as much a matter of personal preference as what flavor ice cream you like. Dialogue is stifled, and we are left with fairly worthless crumbs — “bumper-sticker” philosophy in place of real discourse. Moral relativism, though, is really just a product of sloppy thinking. When probed, I am convinced that any sensible person espousing moral relativism would find they don’t really believe what they are saying. They often have very distinct and sometimes very restrictive moral values that they are very happy to impose on others. But, because they believe in, or think they believe in, a kind of moral relativism, they never examine just what their code of morals really is, and what parts of it should or shouldn’t be imposed on others.
Most Pagans (since Wicca accounts for the vast majority of modern pagans, like it or lump it) have a basic rule of ethical behavior: the Rede. It reads, after stripping the pretentious “Olde Englyshe,” something like: “you can do whatever you want as long as you don’t hurt anybody.” It would seem this is a completely useless principal if not universally applied. But, because of the lack of real discourse concerning the Rede’s meaning, caused by the fallacious concept of moral relativism, we are left with the Rede as the end of moral discussion when it is at best just the most very basic of beginnings. The first question that pops to my mind after hearing the Rede is: “what should I do when my actions will hurt somebody?” There is no advice at all. Some Wiccans interpret the read in an extreme Jainist-like way to mean you are not allowed to cause harm. Ever. At least that has some consistency to it, as impracticable as it may be. But even then, you have to think about what it means to “harm” someone.
“Ethical use of Magick” seems to be the only popular area of ethical discussion, and even that is typically childishly simplistic. I participated in a few online discussions about ethics and magic(k), suspending any disbelief I may have in the efficacy of magic for the sake of discussion, though my comments were mostly ignored. “Don’t impose on the free will of others,” was the entirety of the ethical considerations I could glean from these long discourses. Make sure you put in all your spells some words such as: “and not interfering with the free will of others,” and you were pretty much covered. As I pointed out in the discussions, I can think of many situations where it is perfectly justifiable to impose on the free will of others in “non-magical” contexts. For example, I consider it completely moral to impose on the free will of someone wanting to burglarize my house and coerce their actions through force of violence or the threat of it. It seems to me that if it is ethical or moral to do something without magic, it is to do so with it as well.
So, if we are willing to concede, at least for the sake of argument, that morality is a universal, where do we begin our more serious discussions? My “Virtues” article focused more on aspirations rather than minimal requirements, but minimal standards bear examination. I think Antistoicus’ work on the subject is an excellent framework and starting point. His Universal Base Code of Morality is well thought out and offers quite a lot of food for thought. I especially appreciated his discussion of Honor, which has always been a tricky, nebulous concept to me — one I had dismissed as being a useless “umbrella” term for various and disparate values. Now I am convinced the term can be used meaningfully. I am currently working on some “warrior path” kind of philosophical materials, and his concept of Honor will greatly inform the one I will adopt.
I, of course, believe that morality must be universal. And when I say universal, I mean universal. It applies equally to aliens from other planets and entities on other planes of existence. It applies to gods as well as men. That may be an extreme position. I am not sure. I think it’s worth discussing, though, just how universal “universal” should be. I am ever hopeful that this article might spark the kind of real and meaningful discussion about important topics that I always long for. I haven’t been involved in the pagan scene long enough to become disillusioned of that hope, but I suspect that, just as it happened to Antistoicus, I will be some day.
June 23rd, 2006 at 1:52 am
Wonderful essay. I’m not a big fan of moral relativism either and ethics is an area that has been largely ignored. There are two excellent books on the subject that provide a good start though.
One is When, Why…If by Robin Wood, which deals with personal morality and ethics during the everyday, on a personal level, when dealing with family and friends, for example. The other is An Ye Harm None: Magical Morality and Modern Ethics by Shelley Tsivia Rabinovitch and Meredith MacDonald, which deals more with our responsibilities towards the community, the environment, etc.
Hopefully as Paganism continue to grow and mature, we’ll see more discourse in this area.
June 23rd, 2006 at 6:05 am
These look like interesting reads. I might have to tackle one or both. Maybe I’ll even write a review of them. That there are at least a few folks out there willing to consider these issues does give me hope.
June 23rd, 2006 at 5:29 pm
Among the pagans of British Columbia I’ve noticed that they do take an active approach to defining their personal code of ethics. The trend I’ve seen is that most perceive that as Pagans and Wiccans WE are responsible for ourselves - not laws laid out by a bible or church, but only our own conscience. Scary as that sounds, I do like the amount of personal responsiblity. If one claims to be an enlightened and spiritual being, then one should be able to define and follow their own morals.
For me I see the world as shades of grey, rarely black or white. Reactions to events are decided upon by the circumstances. Of course because I am a witch there are things that morally do not bother me as they would another; “One man’s evil is another man’s amusement park.”
Let’s take cursing for example. If someone is trying to or has harmed me or a loved one I would curse them and it would not eat away at my conscience. Of course I’d look at their life first: do they have a dibilitating illness? A bad life? Friends and family that hate them? If the answer is yes to any of these questions or more then I wouldn’t bother, they’re already leading cursed lives and one more wouldn’t make much of difference. I am a non-Wiccan witch, most Wiccans I know would never dare curse someone. However many Wiccans would do a love spell whereas I dare not tread there - too dangerous. I don’t believe in the rede or the rule of three, but I do believe you receive back what you have put out.
What’s my point? I think that as a fringe religion with no set rules or ethics, we should be smart enough to think of our own and actually follow them. It shows that we are humans and not animals.
June 23rd, 2006 at 7:28 pm
I do agree with you, and I hope more people start to really talk about these kind of things. I think, too, that instead of just thinking about these issues on our own, we need to discuss them with others. And those discussions should be, at least occasionally, “adversarial.” We should think out our concepts well enough to defend them effectively, and when we can’t, we need to be willing to examine them more deeply, modify them if necessary, and be all the stronger in our faith, our ethics, and our philosophy for doing so.
To be honest, one of the main attractions of paganism for me was the lack of centralized moral authority. We are, in affect, our own authority. This part I have no real problem with, to a point. We must take responsibility for ourselves. We must be adults. We are not children being told by a stern God / Patriarch what to do and not to question.
A problem, though, is that it makes it all too easy to start saying things like: “If I am the only person who can decide what is right and wrong, then nobody can tell me I’m wrong.” Real debate is extinguished, then, since nobody can take a contrary position. Everybody is right. Nobody wants to hurt anyone’s feelings, so everybody’s ideas are all equally valid… even the most insane of them.
There are some things that anybody who is a decent human being knows is just plain wrong. And then, there are also many things, perhaps even most things, for which the whole “to each his own” thing is just fine, really. There are millions of ways that reasonable people can disagree. What and how one chooses to worship, for example, is largely a personal matter. I think the mistake comes when we assume everything is merely a matter of personal preference. There is, then, both universal morality, and personal or societal codes which are supersets of universal, objective morality and are, indeed, relative.
The argument that we as Pagans have against the imposition of the dominant culture’s morality should not be that imposing one’s morality on others is wrong in general. Rather it should be that what morality they choose to impose is not truly universal, and to the extent it falls into the realm of personal preference, it’s imposition upon others is unjust.
There are two good examples concerning universal morality you raised: unjustly cursing others or imposing upon their free will with love spells. Once we get past the relativistic stuff, and assume that there is a universal concept of “justice” that can apply to those examples, we can start examining for ourselves and with others just what that justice is, and where the line between personal preference and objective morality lies.
June 24th, 2006 at 11:27 pm
I’m coming the perspective of an American Indian agnostic/atheist, but I’d like to provide some input. I admit from the outset that my own ethical code (if it can be called that) is cobbled together partly from experience, partly from study and partly from family advice. This is what has stuck with me and has worked so far:
1) Do no harm to yourself or others (exception: in defense of self)
2) Treat others as well as you wish to be treated
3) Don’t shit where you eat; don’t eat where you shit
4) Exalt no man; let no man be exalted over you
5) Help those weaker than yourself
6) If you can’t improve on it, at least leave it like you found it
7) Each man shoulders his burden, a good man helps you with yours in your hour of weakness; a bad man puts his on you when he has the strength to shoulder it himself
Most of the time I find my perspective jibes with Humanism; other times I draw succor from the Existentialism and Buddhism — but usually it all falls back to Do No Harm and Help Others, sprinkled liberally with Living in the Moment and and a few dashes of epicureanism.
Maybe this is all just throwback to some vestigial tribalism that still exists in my family or maybe it’s all personal preference, but looking objectively, those seven guidelines could conceivably form the basis of a community or society that I would like to be a part of.
Digression: as a youth I considered the Ten Commandments as rules that stated the obvious: six of the commandments could be distilled down to “Don’t Be An Asshole; assholes are envious, disrespect their parents, fuck other guys’ wives, lie, cheat and steal. Don’t be one.” The other four commandments are essentially “I’m God; give me respect”. I can accept the universal application of the former commandments, but the latter commandments…not so much.
I realize I’m on full drug-addled ramble mode now, so I’ll conclude with a brief and half-hearted defense of relativism. In my experience as an (unsuccessful) anthropology student, relativism was more an ethnographic device than a life philosophy. It was developed as a scientific tool to approximate objectivity when studying foreign cultures and it was to the ethnographer what the spade and brush was to the archeologist. Mind you, my book-knowledge on this subject is faded and mostly superficial, but relativism was always sold to us as a method and not a way of life. Outside of anthropology the only time I hear “relativism” is when it is decried — usually by the faithful, and frequently by AM talk radio hosts — and accused of empowering a permissive variant of nihilism. This moral relativism business certainly sounds ugly, but nowadays when I hear that word it rings more like a bogeyman word to me. Maybe I need to be schooled on the specifics; I’m just not convinced that it is so great a problem.
So…far be it from me to impose my ideas on anyone, but those seven guidelines have served me well. Feel free to pick them apart; I’m always open to sensible modifications of my own perspective (IMO, the continual examination and modification of ones own outlook keeps the mind young and prevents it from ossifying).
June 25th, 2006 at 12:23 am
Wow, thanks for the response, Joe! I think your philosophy is elegant. It is no more complex than it needs to be. That’s the way a philosophy of morality should be, I think. It should be immediately, intuitively perceived as sound.
I’ve been having some interesting conversations about this article on other sites, too, and I will probably post a follow-up article, bringing together much of the input.
For example, addressing something you bring up, I actually think most things that are bantered around as morals are relative. Perhaps even 99% of them. So, most of the time, it’s no problem. But, when it is used to stifle debate or examination, it becomes a major problem.
It’s kind of funny, I know. It’s usually conservative Christians who banter about the “relativism” stuff. When they ask me about it, I agree with them that morality is universal, just not the same morality they are thinking of. The rules of “universal morality” are very few and very simple… whatever they are.
“So…far be it from me to impose my ideas on anyone”
You see, that’s the thing. Why should anyone consider your stating firmly your well considered ideas an imposition? We are encumbered by some unwritten rules of politeness that we shouldn’t champion an idea too strongly, or challenge the spoken opinions of others. After all, “everybody’s opinion is equally valid,” or some such nonsense. I say: put your ideas out there and defend them with intellectual rigor and honesty without apology. If it is worthy, it will stand, if not, it will fail. Then everybody learns and grows from the exchange.
And if it needs to be said: hearing your opinion is never an imposition to me, Joe. I value it much more highly than I do most people’s.
June 25th, 2006 at 4:13 am
I appreciate the sentiment, old buddy. I think I tack the “live and let live” course because I’ve been the target of more than one individual attempting to impose a viewpoint on me with high-minded religiosity and I didn’t much appreciate it; I adopted a casual approach to allay the resentment that comes from forceful high-handedness.
I see, however, that I limit whatever opportunity I might have to espouse my beliefs. But I’m of the mind that if someone really cares to hear my take on an issue, they’ll ask me or they’ll visit my blog.
Aaanyhoo…I’ve unpacked (i.e., paced and muttered to myself) my previous comment over at my own blog, but I’ll repost it here if you find it suitable.